Méline Lafont ~Lady Portia: The meaning of difficulties in relationships

5 February 2013


My precious hearts, beloved and marvellous souls … We have arrived at a most blessed moment, a most enrichening time, wouldn’t you agree? Is it not tangible for your hearts, how big and full of compassion this has grown? How beautiful and heartwarming everything unfolds in your inner core is very palpable for everybody and also for all of us. 

 Despite this enrichment there still are some tears flowing, some hearts begging and some souls departing. Difficult times are still somewhat present to a certain degree in the hearts and in the world of humanity. This is not what you want and certainly not what you are manifesting and creating. And yet, up to a certain level there still remains a certain degree of poverty, of pain and of disturbances.

 Allow me to inform you all how earnestly we are all working on that, precious hearts; how change is likely to occur in these conditions. Nothing is like it was just a month ago, everything changes in a way that is becoming tangible for all of you. You can feel it in the hearts, in your Being, but most of all in your course of action. Once your hearts achieve full enlightenment, a wave of Love will take over in such a manner that everything all of a sudden will feel very differently and your actions towards each other will change accordingly.

 Many hearts have come to this conclusion and many of you have duly reached this phase. As your enrichment and your enlightenment continue, a lot gets clearer, much work will get done and much renewal unfolds. This implies a big metamorphosis, a beautiful thing to behold.

 Some tinkering has still to occur to many forms, many ideas and many thoughts so to say and some issues request a focus on your inner being. Consider this opportunity as a blessing and take it as it presents itself to you, it will bring  you insights and processings, giving  you the chance to completely release it all.

 Difficulties that arise in relationships with other beloved hearts are the talk of the town nowadays, so to speak. These difficulties are felt by many hearts, all too often accompanied by sorrow and disappointments. A feeling of powerlessness erupts and one is in the dark as to how to handle it. My precious hearts, step aside and view the whole situation from a different perspective fully aware that this is an opportunity or a clear message that change is on its way, putting you in the position to renew, to change or to leave it all behind.

Many hearts have come to the conclusion that specific relations, whether on a basis of friendship or of love, no longer function like they used to. Differing points of view, differing life styles, a different way of thinking and creating …. and in that way, 2 totally different worlds are built within 1 family, within 1 relationship and so on….. It all boils down to continue believing in  yourself, to hold on and to keep on standing behind your creation and your heart feeling. Do not let anyone deter you from your chosen path ; you know what you need in this moment and that’s no business to anyone, nor is it even the business of us in the Higher World.

 What is the best approach when faced with this kind of situation? How to deal with it the best possible way? Well, my precious hearts, it is difficult to give a clear cut answer to that question because there are so many variables and there cannot be 1 answer that covers it all. That’s the reason why I feel compelled to give you some kind of advice and to share with you that you are not alone in this situation and that it is common in these current times because the hearts manifest and create their own creations.

 There are litterally many worlds being created within this new world of the Light because you all return to your true Self, and this can vary according to other people’s thoughts and creations. I am referring now to hearts who haven’t experienced their awakening yet, partners and friends, family members and acquaintances who have no clue of what they truly are, no insights for what reason they have incarnated nor do they know who we are. I want to elaborate on this kind of relationships, these are the ones which are the most difficult.

 Beloved hearts of mine, be aware that when you find yourself in these kinds of situations and when there seems to be no way out, become aware that there truly is a way out. It is sufficient to know that this way of life on the one hand and that the worlds on the other hand are in the process of splitting off and hence there can be no more cooperation. The difference is too great and there are no longer any correlations. Renewal is afoot and the old familiar is collapsing. There’s just a little space remaining of what I’m talking about and there is really not much more that can be done, besides continue building your own world, your own creation. It is your choice that is the decisive factor in all of this.

 Keep track of the renewal if this is your heart’s choice and leave the awakening of a beloved soul up to the heartchoice of that specific soul. The only thing you can do is to share Love and to respect their creations, fully knowing that they too will begin with their awakening at their own pace.  Let your Love and the incomming energies do their work as an assistance to them.  Some creations vary tremendously, a fact that is reflected in your outer world.

 Approach them with your Love, your compassion and most of all with your support and trust. Just to be there for them gives them a feeling of being loved and being heard, even though you do not resonate with their world. Being all ears when they are talking to you can work wonders and gives them the feeling that they are loved. Awakened souls are fully aware of what’s going on and what’s in store for them. Unawakened souls on the other hand have no clue whatsoever which makes this whole issue all the more difficult to deal with. They feel that the world is changing and they don’t know how to handle those changes, not to mention that they don’t know how to cope with the new energies. To a certain degree they can sense it but they can’t see anything tangible yet.

 Lots of emotions are swarming through the physical body when pain and discord are felt in the hearts. Personal relationships seems to come to an end, friendships are cut short and family ties disappear. Those are all indicators of the renewed world that is emerging amongst you. It requires a lot of focus and energy to be able to handle this and to cope with this in your daily life. “How do I best deal with this?” is the question that is still on many minds.

 Precious hearts, not much can be done unless the fellow party would wake up all of a sudden and instigate its renewal, possibly leading back to harmonious relationships. To find yourself on the same wavelength brings new and refurbished relationships, new friendships are forged and numerous possibilities are created by cooperating in projects, relationships … Those are the enlightened energies which you are creating and which you attract to yourselves.

 While a specific relationship towards a person can fade away or even vanish altogether, a renewed or even a new one is waiting in the wings. Ones of an equal disposition are brought together to create renewals and to achieve refinement. When a situation looks hopeless, remain centered and grounded and extract energy from this in order to continue on and to gain insight in this situation. No clear cut answers can be given to you, just guidance leading up to gaining insights to get through this situation.

 Consider every situation as a blessing as it leads you to where you are now and feel the Love and the mutual respect. Tolerance is a norm and it can be helpful to make a difficult situation bearable when it seems hopeless. Some relationships will come to their end, some relationships will be renewed in a profound way. Whatever the case, my precious hearts, Love will never perish for it is your True Self and the Source of Light, the Source of Life; Love makes us what we truly are.

I AM that I AM and I love you all !  
Lady Portia.

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Amongst many things I am a Lightworker ... Language and labels are so very limiting. Most importantly I am a spiritual being in human form living my truth with integrity in divine loving service. ♥
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